Preference...

This morning, while getting the 3 year old dressed, (His birthday is next month, but he might as well be 3 now), I picked out some sneakers for him to wear. He didn't want to wear them, he made me put his boots on. I guess he preferred to wear his boots instead of the sneakers. Don't ask me why, that's what he wanted. So I obliged him.
From an early age, we know what we do and do not like. Which brings me to today's thought. People need to more upfront with their preference. I find that men prefer several different types of women. They prefer one type to be in a relationship with, one type to be friends with, and one type to have sex with. Rarely is their one woman who can fit that bill. I think that's why most men cheat. Women on the other hand look for one type of man that can fill all their needs. We don't want more then one man. Both men and women have a tendency to settle for a person that doesn't necessarily meet their preference. I think everyone should be more up front and honest with each other. If I'm not your preference, tell me. Don't make me think I have a shot at being your girl, when I'm not your type. And ladies, you need to do the same. Don't lead these men on. It's not fair. The truth often hurts. I'd rather be hurt in the beginning, then hurt in the end. That's just my opinion.